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It has often been said that adopting a second hand dog requires patience
and dedication. This is certainly true of our YGRR adopters. Some cope
with their dog's extraordinary physical disabilities -- whether the dog
had the limitations when adopted or not. Following are the stories of
some of those wonderful people and the lucky Goldens who share their homes
and benefit from their kindness and patience. This is a long overdue tribute to Kelsey, my wonderful seven year-old Golden Girl. I wanted to share my story and just tell the world how special Kelsey is. I became the third (and last!) proud owner of We bonded almost instantly and she quickly realized the meaning of being
pampered and treated like a queen. Endless treats, summer vacations, constant
affection and even an empty spot on the bed she could cuddle up with her
new "mother." She was in "Golden Heaven." Her life tragically changed on January 15, 1997. She slipped her collar
during her morning walk, and ran directly into the path of a speeding
SUV. It happened so quickly, and I can still remember looking in horror
at her sweet face and hearing the yelps of pain.
With the help of my wonderful neighbors who came out with warm blankets,
we were able to carry her to my car and rush her to the animal hospital.
The preliminary report was devastating. She was in shock, had sustained
a lumbar/sacral fracture, massive trauma to bladder and rectum, paralysis
of her tail, and possibly of her hind legs. I was so overcome with grief,
it was like losing my best friend. I couldn't bear to think of her precious
young life ending so tragically, but I couldn't compromise the quality
of her life either.
The second report was much more hopeful. Her shock was stabilized! She
was moving her hind legs! She had immediate surgery to repair her fracture,
and although she hadn't suffered any internal injuries, there was a possibility
that even after recuperating, she may have nerve damage and would be incontinent.
I know to some an incontinent dog would be just too much of a burden and
too time consuming. But, knowing that one day she'd be able to run and
play as she once did, I knew in my heart, either way, that we would be
fine. Kelsey wasn't just a dog to me, she was a family member who deserved
the best possible chance of recovery.
The surgery went well and I'll never forget visiting her later that
evening. She was in a cage just big enough so that she could fit, had
IV's, a urinary catheter, pain medicine, etc. When she heard my voice,
she made a little sound and slowly put her paw out to me. If I could have
loved her any more, it was at that moment!
The outpouring of love and support from others was amazing. I was receiving
cards, letters and treats from some people I had never even met, but who
had heard her story and wanted to send their get well wishes.
The recovery period wasn't easy, and I couldn't have done it without
my family and friends. Kelsey needed to be crated for three months, she
required round the clock medication, frequent bathing and at least six
short walks per day. When she first came home, she wasn't able to get
from laying down to standing by herself, and was unable to climb even
one stair without assistance. The hardest part was the incontinence. For
me, it was extra laundry, but for her it was worse. She didn't understand
why it was happening, so when it did, she would hang her head in shame
because she thought she was "bad."
Each and every time this happened, I would cuddle her and give her kisses
and tell her what a good girl she was. She received an enormous amount
of attention, love and patience during those couple of months, and gradually
she began to heal and recover. Her recovery has been remarkable.
Today, mobility wise, she's the same as she once was. She runs, plays
and swims. Spiritwise, she's happy, playful, stubborn, mischievous and
always "smiling." Unfortunately, her incontinence was permanent, but as
unbelievable as it sounds, she seems to have accepted it and understands
it's not her fault. I found a wonderful doggie undergarment from Dr. Foster
& Smith's catalogue which she wears only in the house so she won't dribble
urine.
Her wisdom and acceptance of the situation is probably the most amazing.
When she sees me with the diaper in hand, she immediately stands up and
lifts up one of her hind legs to help me. Once it is on, she runs off
and does her thing. Occasionally, she licks my hand, and looks up at me
with those Golden eyes, as if to say "thanks."
Occasionally, she gets urinary tract infections, but other than that,
life is again wonderful for Kelsey.
While I know that some dog owners wouldn't have had the time, I'm fortunate
that I do and am so grateful to my family and friends for loving Kelsey
as much as I do. Every time I look at her, I think she really is my little
miracle. I'm so grateful that she's a part of my life and even though
she is now "special needs," I wouldn't trade her for the world. The joy
and happiness and, at times, humor that she gives every day is immeasurable.
Thanks for such a wonderful dog, who is the bright spot in my day, every
day!
Lucy During the week of February 15, 1997, a Golden puppy was found in the
north end of a Connecticut At the vet's office, her name, Precious, was being challenged. Because
she wasn't housebroken, and couldn't use her back legs, she was constantly
covered in feces and urine. Her nickname soon became "Not-So-Precious."
Someone came up with the idea to rename her Lucy, short for Lucifer. Dr.
Audrey, who owns the veterinary practice, loves a challenge, so she developed
a plan to try to rehabilitate Lucy's paralyzed rear, at least to the point
where she could get along by herself. Lucy had always been able to walk
on her front legs, but she dragged her rear end resulting in constant
sores and bleeding. Audrey hoped that as Lucy grew, she would become strong
enough to support most of her weight on her front legs, and then be able
to salvage a little use from her rear legs to support her. It was not
to be, however. One of Lucy's legs was bent at an angle that hindered
the use of the better one. Audrey tried, under anesthesia, to free up
the joints and tendons of that bad leg, but to no avail. She made the
choice to remove the leg so that she could concentrate on the better one.
After the operation, Dr. Audrey continued the physical therapy, using
her own swimming pool, in the hope that swimming would loosen and strengthen
the leg. It worked, over time, to the point that Lucy would use the leg
when she was running, but she still didn't use it while walking.
Lucy was sent to Riverview to try her luck at getting adopted. Between
her lack of house training, and her constant need for baths, plus the
sight of her dragging herself around, the staff at Riverview felt that
Lucy was not adoptable. Lucy was sent back to the vet hospital where one
of Dr. Audrey's vet techs had volunteered her parents to help house train
Lucy and socialize her with their two YGRR Goldens. Those two people were
us, both members of Rescue. This is Lucy's story from our point of view.
Our daughter had been telling us about a handicapped Golden at the animal
hospital for months. She now came home and asked us if we could help this
little dog by taking her into our house. We were to try to housebreak
her and socialize her with our two Goldens, Maggie and Bennie. She explained
that this was perhaps the last chance for this dog to become "adoptable".
We really didn't want a third dog, but Susan said that it would only be
temporary. When Lucy became housebroken, she would go back to Riverview
and hopefully get adopted.
I decided that I wouldn't become attached to Lucy. I considered her
a work in progress -- a job, so to speak.
We had our work cut out for us that first night. Lucy was a sweetheart,
but, oh my, the mess! We began by putting her on a schedule. Just like
a puppy, she would go out to "potty" right after every meal, as soon as
she woke up, and right before bedtime. We praised her after each successful
"outing" and after a few days, she was almost perfect. Sure there were
some mistakes, but we could see that Lucy was sorry.
One night, Lucy was sleeping on the couch. I looked over at her and
watched as she dreamed. Her eyes, although closed, moved as she watched
something in her dream world. Her legs moved rhythmically as she chased
it. I wondered if she was still handicapped in her dreams, or if she could
run as she had never done. I moved closer to her, studying her face, looking
at the perfection in her features. I wondered why something so beautiful,
so innocent, could be so imperfect. As I drew even closer, Lucy must have
sensed my presence. Her eyes opened a little, and when she saw me so near,
they opened wide in surprise. Then something happened that changed everything.
She recognized me. Her eyes softened, and she leaned closer to me and
gently licked my face.
This one act went straight to my heart. I knew then that I was totally
in love with this little Golden girl. I also knew that we would never
part.
All our plans for her were now in our hands. She had found her "forever
home".
When we first got her, we had originally envisioned Lucy being adopted
by a Physical Therapist. Someone who could use her disability along with
her wonderful personality to help handicapped children overcome the obstacles
in their journey towards rehabilitation. Dee and I felt that Lucy was
put on this earth for a purpose. She had come a long way and fought incredible
odds just to get this far. Now we had a new "job". We wanted to, eventually,
use Lucy to help others.
It took almost one year. We worked with Lucy, socializing her with other
dogs, working her with people, especially children. She loved children!
We worked with a local rehabilitation hospital, and Lucy became certified
as a therapy dog to work in that hospital. Later this year, she was also
certified by Therapy Dogs International to work in any hospital or nursing
home in this country or Canada.
We want everyone to know that Lucy leads a pretty normal life. She is
still small, only 48 pounds. She has learned to swim like any other Golden,
and spends hours retrieving her tennis balls. She travels with us wherever
we go. She rides in a modified jogging stroller when we go on our walks,
but she gets down and plays with the other dogs from time to time.
She has become something of a celebrity. Due in large part to the Internet,
Lucy has had her story told in several publications, and her pictures
adorn more than one website. We are supported by a wonderful group of
people who have stuck with us through everything. Through a Golden Retriever
List Group, my nightly stories on Lucy's progress drew comments and cheers.
It was that support that made us realize that we had a very special Golden.
We don't know how long we will have Lucy. So far her health has been
extremely good, but with the immense strain on her front shoulders, we
are aware that this could be a temporary thing. In the meantime, Dee and
I will do everything in our power to make sure that this special girl
lives life to the fullest, and happiest!
Thumper's Saga - A Love Story It had been six months since the death of our sweet Golden, Zev, (not
a rescue dog), and we were ready to do the Golden dance once again. YGRR
had learned that we had Zev through his city registration and had mailed
us a postcard encapsulating just what YGRR is about. We kept that card
for years, and finally the time had come to put it to use.
We were visited by a YGRR volunteer in late October, 1994, almost passed
muster, (part of the fence On December 8th my husband and I drove to a kennel and fell in dog love.
Thumper is a small Golden, but needed considerably more weight than the
forty pounds he had on him. The vets had diagnosed him as making insufficient
pancreatic enzymes. In short, he could not digest food, had constant diarrhea
and was not able to gain weight. They started giving him enzymes, (Viokase,
approximately $75 for a 2 - 3 month supply), and thus began his road to
health.
Within 6 months we had a happy, playful, sixty-five pound dog. Then,
through happenstance, the Gods created a problem necessitating that Thump
be X-rayed. What turned up was one horrendous diagnosis. He had advanced
spondylosis, or degeneration of the spine, which, we were told, would
result in his paralysis, most likely within the next six months. Spondylosis
is an immune system problem. I felt that it was time to turn to an alternative
vet, to see if there was anything we could do to strengthen Thumper's
immune system. Dr. Robert Goldstein, and Dr. Brien Wessels of Northern
Skies in Westport, CT were the answer. I was told, "If you're willing
to give him medication, (22 pills in the AM & 23 in the PM - with an absolute
promise that he'll end up on a fraction of those pills in a year or so),
run him 20 minutes 2 times a day, and get involved in making some of his
food, I think we can do it. And, oh, by the way, let's get his pancreas
healthy enough so that it can make its own enzymes, rather than giving
him enzymes."
Wow! This was a commitment! But, when you agree to share your home and
heart with an animal, there are no bounds. We were grateful that we could
do this for Thump, and do it, we have. Including a healthy pancreas that
makes enzymes. For this he takes Pan 5X, approximately $20 for a 3 month
supply.
Every two weeks I peel and chop five pounds of carrots, five large celery
stalks and about two-thirds of a package of fresh spinach, bag this into
3.5 ounce servings and freeze, using a bag per meal. Every four days I
cook one half cup of brown rice, one half cup of millet, one can of low
fat/sodium chicken broth and water. He gets one half cup per meal. The
grain mixture was necessary because tests showed that he was not absorbing
nutrients well. This did the trick.
Along the way, we needed to solve that Golden bugaboo, hot spots with
some allergies thrown in for good measure. I'd been giving Thump antihistamine
from my traditional vet, but each night, as soon as it wore off, the poor
dog would tear at himself in abject misery. I was becoming rather miserable
myself, because night after night, I would sit and massage him, applying
every topical product safe for dogdom with less than startling results.
Let's hear it for alternative supplements! A Chinese herb called Kai
Yeung was suggested and so ended our misery. One of those pellets in the
AM & one in the PM, and no more itchiness at all. At last, uninterrupted
sleep.
Every 6 months or so, Dr. Senker, my traditional vet, (who after speaking
to Dr. Goldstein, flew to Atlanta for a week every month until he had
1500 hours in, so he could become a licensed acupuncturist - so maybe
he's not a strictly traditional vet), draws blood, the results going both
to Northern Skies & to me. Drs. Goldstein/Wessels do a Metabolic Nutritional
Analysis and determine what supplements to continue, discontinue or add.
Within a year we were down to roughly 6 pills in the AM & 6 more at night.
(The office ships these supplements throughout the USA.) It will be four
years this month that we have been doing this, so thankfully, we made
it past the 6 month paralysis sentence. Thump runs after tennis balls,
(what else?), 20 minutes every morning and again every PM, along with
our play-date black lab, Arrow. We all have great fun doing this, pausing
once in a while to play a little hide and seek. About every 6 weeks, or
whenever his spine indicates it needs some more help, I take Thump to
Dr. Senker and he administers Zeel, a product that provides great relief
to the spine, into the appropriate acupuncture spots. Dr. Wessels insists
that I should be able to do this myself, and probably if the need were
more frequent or if I did not have Dr. Senker nearby, I would.
In July 1998 we had a mishap - Thump, following my husband, tried to
squeeze through a heavy swinging door. Everything made it except about
1/2 inch of tail. We were told both by the emergency vet and our traditional
vet that 85%-90% of the time, the complete tail has to be amputated because
there's just not enough capillaries to allow enough blood flow to heal
the tail.
Gangrene was practically a certainty.
I thought we'd probably used up more than our share of miracles, but
I called Northern Skies again. Dr. Wessels' advice scared me silly, "Give
him 1,600 IU of vitamin E per day." This, I knew, could really be dangerous.
He said that, hopefully, this regimen should bear fruit in about a month,
at which point we'd begin reducing the dose. (Of course all of this happened
two days before vacation, so scratch the vacation.) The tail needed to
be smelled frequently to make sure gangrene hadn't started, and dressings
needed weekly changing. Four weeks later, during a dressing change, Dr.
Senker pointed out the beginnings of healthy tissue, and sure enough,
Thumper still has his very beautiful tail, with feathers all grown back.
One day before our vacation this year, guess what? Right. During play
it became apparent that Thump was not able to hold on to any ball tossed
to him, a first in the 4 + years he's been with us. The mouth problem
turned out to be a broken tooth, with an exposed vein. He was not in obvious
discomfort except when trying to catch balls. We determined that eating
was not a problem for him so we boarded him with the vet and went on an
overdue vacation.
Upon our return, Dr. Senker advised us that it is now possible to do
root canals on dogs, and that this is preferable to tooth extraction,
except, perhaps, in the case of very old dogs. With extraction, one runs
the risk of the remaining teeth moving and becoming loose. He referred
us to Dr. Donald DeForge in Milford, CT. It's been a week since the surgery
and Thumper seems to be doing very well. Dr. DeForge tried to sell me
on a titanium crown - I truly believe it was not the money that interested
him. This is really new technology, and I believe that he was just excited
to have the opportunity to fashion a crown. As he said, he's only one
of five vets in the country who is able to do this. When I asked what
this would add to the bill, the answer was $850. We were at $1400 for
all tests done by my vet plus tests and the procedure by Dr. DeForge.
I'm sure I disappointed him terribly when I declined the crown.
Thump is just going to have to survive with one short canine tooth.
If he has psychological problems because of this, I figure a couple of
sessions with a doggy psychologist would be cheaper. For the root canal,
in addition to the antibiotics, the holistic vets suggested Arnica, a
homeopathic product that is excellent for trauma, given once a day for
two days before surgery, and twice a day on the day of and for the seven
days following surgery. We have to change all of our toys, as Thumper
chews too hard and has tiny cracks in several teeth that hopefully won't
become larger.
Also, he was destroying dentin, recognizable by little dark marks on
the edge of his teeth. He can only have soft toys - no more nylabone,
no more kong. Dr. DeForge was not keen on tennis balls either, but you
might as well shoot Thumper if tennis balls are totally forbidden. I'll
closely monitor tennis balls.
To the question, "Can any dog possibly be worth all this time, trouble,
and effort to say nothing of expense?" The answer is a resounding, "You
betcha!" The joy we have because Thumper is in our lives makes these extras
absolutely worthwhile. Watching him bounce a ball on each step as we go
upstairs, (which may have to remain in our memory banks), lying regally
with crossed front paws, and countless other adorable schtick that make
Thumper - THUMPER! - does something to me that I'm sure you, as members
of the Golden Fan Club, understand - they are just incredible, precious,
special beings.
Conclusion
Adopting a second hand dog requires a willingness to give the dog firm
rules and understanding to allow him or her to adapt to a new environment.
We think you will agree that the folks whose stories are told here have
gone well above and beyond understanding. The Rescue Goldens and the YGRR
program are fortunate to include them in our family. Thanks to each of
them.
If you would like to help Rescue Goldens like Kelsey, Lucy and Thumper,
please become a YGRR member or consider
a donation. Thank you. |
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